- As for back as 2004, The Observer reported women raping young boys. The report states that “a lot of people find the issue of male rape funny; because they think that men want to have sex all the time, and all men will have sex with anything and anybody but that is not true,” One person said men can be very discerning, men can be conservative with their sexual behaviours. Actually men can be very serious with their sexual preferences and their sexual interactions.
- While there is the issue of older women in their 20s, 30s, and 40s having sex with younger men, Dr. Pusey ( this is a pseudonym) said that there is also a problem with teenage girls forcing teenage boys into sexual activities, men. The doctor said that there is also a problem with teenage girls forcing teenage boys into sexual activities, while adolescent males are also being raped or sexually abused by adult females.
We always do follow-ups when we get these calls and have these men come in to us,
The doctor explained, “we have come to the conclusion that we now have to expand our
focus not only on the little boys — who are very, very important that CISOCA (Centre for
Investigation of Sexual Offences and Child Abuse) sees — but also on the various age
groups that we see turning up reporting that they have been raped, because it’s a big deal for
an adult male to say listen this has happened. We will have to tweak our database collection
system, because we realize that the issue of adult male rape is also a problem.
The main reason for having this post is to highlight aspects of our culture which is not well
known by many and the dangers these behaviors present for many segments of our society.
Should the country be addressing these issues based on the laws that states that
adolescents or children below the age of 16 years cannot consent to sexual behaviours?
Should there be some kind of psycho-education to inform adolescents, adults and children
about not only the laws but the physical and psychological consequences that result from
such actions? How do we get people to attend these forums? Should government agencies
be the ones to host these meetings and invite parents and their young people to attend
them? Should there be separate and then joint sessions held on these topics? Should the
government agencies be the ones to arrange and engage children in such discussions?
This post should help to address the problem in bringing an awareness and sensitivity to the
issue. It should pave the way to get competent help for these persons involved. Maybe the
government agencies are unwilling to take on these tasks, but can they help to finance this
project by giving tax incentives to companies that would be willing to sponsor workshops and
classes dealing with these topics. Maybe some of the services could be offered in health
centers and hospitals as seminars. There are several educators who are trained to handle
these issues as well as the medical personnel who can provide support for such
seminars. You will say everyone is overworked but can we ask for volunteers and pay them a
fair amount to cover their costs for hosting these events? I would also suggest that some
legal minds be brought in to speak about the consequences of breaking the laws that relate to
sexual practices. All hands are needed on deck at this time more than ever.